Sunday, May 5, 2013

And then things get really serious

So, we both realize where this is going.  And it's going there really really fast.  Faster than either of us anticipated.  Faster than either of us really wanted.  But it was going there, and it was decision time.  We did the decision thing like we always do the decision thing.  We individually prayed and fasted.  We made pro's and con's lists.  We thought things through.  We discussed the relationship with our friends and families.  We began to really think about the decision.  And it was the right one.  Let's do this!  We came to the conclusion at the same time.  This was an exhilarating and terrifying point in our relationship.  I mean, this was serious stuff!  We started making plans.  We began contemplating times to get married.  We would have great days where we would happily talk about the future.  We would have days where one of us got freaked out.  I mean, this was forever we were planning!  I mean, were we both ready for forever to start?  Were we finished being stupid and having our big decisions and stupid mistakes only impact ourselves?  Heavenly Father comforted us, and we also helped each other.  We got more comfortable and happy with our decision every day.  It began to get more and more official!

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